Finding the Cure of Mourning the Loss of a Loved One
May 26th, 2012 No two people grieve the same, I think. It's been a few months now since our loss. Every time I think I am getting better, I fail. I just need a cure. I still wonder if this is how it is with everyone who mourns. The ups and downs of feeling good about yourself. You can go a week or so and feel your pulling through the darkness, and then fall right on your ass, twisting your body and laying flat on your damn face. It's grueling. You feel like you're living in an enduring black hole. The good weeks feel like a tease. An appetizer before the sorrow is served. I'm going through the motions of life day in and day out, but the only difference is that my daily routine is not my choosing. It is my necessity. No matter how I feel, my boys need me. Some mornings, I wake up to a vibration in my head, rattling the oxygen right out of my brain, cutting off my blood supply, and a lightheadedness kicks in. Even though I feel lightheaded, my head bobbles around l...