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You are here: Home » Foundation Nico (left) and Christopher  November 25, 2015 Trying to figure out these two kids psyches is a fun game of chess. Both my boys are beginning to emerge with their own personalities and interests so, as their dad, I’m trying to balance both of them with my own ideas of life as a lay a foundation that they will build upon through their own experiences. Thankfully, I’m a moral person because at this stage of their life, my influence, has a direct weaving pattern as their fibers intertwine and mold their mental strength that will dictate what kind of people they will be in society. I try to break them down when they’re strong, but not break them down to the point where they don’t stand on their own feet. I tell them “no” when appropriate but allow them some leeway on certain “no” to allow them to feel as if they some empowerment. I don’t want to bully them because I don’t want them to be a bully to someone else however, if they ...